Woman: Love thyself
Don’t panic, this isn’t going to be a porno-posting (or self help for frustrated women).. well, yeah it could be termed the latter I suppose.
You see, some comments on a recent post of mine have got me thinking. Moreso than I usually do, which could be good or bad – I am as yet unsure 😉
I love how the people who comment on my blog are generally both humorous and helpful in their thinking. It really is quite awesome .. especially as some of my rants could realistically be met with “harden the fuck up, woman” (or just “fuck up, woman”?!)
This relates back to my “common themes” post, where I lament the fact there doesn’t seem to be a common theme viz it’s harder for me to “FIX” the problem.
However the reality is, I am assured that until I love myself – I cannot find true love.
So to you I ask … how did you find true love? And what does true love mean to you? How do you not get bored? How do you not hate where you’re at such that you leave it?
WHAT makes it work for you?
I am intrigued.
I’ve never been one to much care about what others think. I tend to do my own thing and just figure shit out for me .. but I am learning lots from both emails and comments, so figure why not try it s’more ..
I am a reasonably attractive woman. My best friend says I “pull like a tractor”. (She isn’t gay but I do like her best, heh) I am not even <-> this much interested in having babies or white picket fences. Could be good, could be bad, I know.I don’t need you to earn money to support me (and / or my kith and kin). I have a brain. A well utilised one. A job. A well paid one. I am well travelled. Well educated.
But not a wanker, for all these earlier statements..
I do charity work. By choice. Force me to do something and we have a-whole-nother issue. But if I care, you will know. A lot. I take care of those I choose to. I love my country, my family, my friends and my world…
But have no man to do this alongside.
(insert tragic loser musack here)
And yes. I would like a man to go thru life with.
Because I’m hard wired to? Because every girl I went to school with has one? (Happily or otherwise) because I should?
I DON’T KNOW!
Which comes back to (I told you before, I am logical… sorry) why I can’t find true love. Do I want that or do I want … mm I don’t know ..
Posted on October 19, 2011, in Hope, Humour, Life, Love, Optimism, Relationships and tagged Hope, Humor, Joy, Life, Love, Opinion, Random, Rants, Relationships, Thoughts. Bookmark the permalink. 23 Comments.