Hmpfh, dumped (for the wife!)
I mentioned I had met a man some months back. Not just any man, this one was quite special. That very heady blend of sexy, intelligent and funny. I think I’ve said before, I can handle not having the sexy bit, cos I find a combination of brains and humour in a man dead sexy. So the package of gorgeous, brains and humour was quite special. Oh how he could make me laugh. Even his texts were a constant source of giggles and delight. Whenever we were together, time flew by – it really was just so.. good.
Except for, oh yeah: his wife. Not so good..
When we met he and the wife were ‘taking a break’. Now I never really got the whole “take a break” thing. Break UP: yes. Break DOWN, sure. Taking a break from a relationship just seems .. weird, to me.
He had been honest about the status of their relationship when we met and I didn’t think anything more of it. Hell at my age every 2nd man is divorced lol
He told me she’d suggested the break, so she could explore her options.. He said he figured she was over the marriage thing so left without too much of a fight, except for access to their 3 children. I actually could understand that, as there really is nothing enjoyable about trying to re-invigorate a relationship that’s passed its use by date.
Fast fwd a few months & she’s back on the scene, crying saying it was all a big mistake and can she have a second chance, the kids miss you and blah bla wah wah blah.
He did what most men would do, I suspect: He went back and is trying to make it work. Damn him 😉
One does have to wonder at the gods some times *sigh* So, lesson learned? I’m not yet sure I’ve found one.. wish me luck please, cos right now I just feel bitter .. and a tad jaded.
Posted on August 26, 2012, in Life, Love, Rants, Relationships, Stress and tagged Blogging, Dating, Hope, Humor, Inspiration, Life, Love, Marriage, Musings, Random, Rants, Relationships. Friendship, Trust. Bookmark the permalink. 15 Comments.