The end is nigh
So my last post was a tiny bit depressing, as I digested the news that I was destined to be single for a rather long time to come. However, some time has since elapsed and I am now accustomed to this notion vs. being somewhat bemused, confused and pissed off about it 😉
Instead of becoming too depressed, I have opted to change a few things that are within my control. And it feels kinda good, I must say!
Including pushing the lovely but (seemingly) out of grasp Mr fabulous into a safe place (for me) where he no longer features as “important”, instead he’s in the corner with other “so damn hot and want him to bits but don’t like the baggage he comes with” types.
He’s overseas – as always. And we do talk, albeit occasionally. And almost always on his terms. And for all I want you to all think I am in control i.e,: I’m “the man”, I’m a complete wuss and whilst his terms suck – oh how I love to hear from him 😦
Perhaps the most human and sad bit of this post which is really just intended to be an update not something to make you all wanna come cuddle me and make me feel better (for all I wouldn’t say no to that lol)
ANYWAY the real reason for this post was to say hi, touch base and wish you all a very relaxed and happy Xmas (assuming the Mayan’s are wrong, of course!) and to say “watch this space” cos by heck there’s some new stuff going down in my world in the new year and who the heck knows what it will bring but as I sink into my 3rd champagne here in 88 deg (F) heat, I wanna say “Bring it!”
And soon, I hope to be ready for whatever “it” brings 😉
How about you?
Are you ready for Xmas?
And the new year?
I look forward to hearing from you all and keeping in touch ~ way better than I have done til now. Below is a pic of the NZ Christmas tree. It’s found on many beaches .. it may not be Christmassy to you but to us it so totally symbolises Xmas in this sunny hemisphere come December 🙂
Merry Christmas, my friends. My wish for you is happiness in silly quantities and I look fwd to hearing about the pursuit of and/or realisation of it xo
Posted on December 21, 2012, in Change, Happy-ness, Hope, Humour, Life, Love, Optimism, Rants, Relationships and tagged Alone, Blogging, Dating, Friends, Happy, Hope, Humor, Humour, Life, Love, Musings, Psychic, Random, Rants, Relationships, Romance, Tarot. Bookmark the permalink. 28 Comments.
lifeinthefarcelane 
Your NZ Christmas tree is very beautiful, and looks a lot like a Hawaiian tree called Ohia Lehua, which is one of the first plants to be able to grow on cooled and solid lava flows.
I’m never ready for Xmas, but Xmas will come whether I’m ready or not… kinda like I did a long time ago, on a rare occasion with a girlfriend who never wanted to see me again, for some reason… So my advice to you, is to never say “Bring it!” unless you are sure you’re ready, cause I know what “it” brings, and you don’t want what it brings too soon and all over expensive stuff that needs to be dry cleaned! (yes, I know that I’m terrible, but you already knew that a long time ago. lol)
But… I am absolutely ready for the New Year, and even more so right now, since I can wish you a very Happy Christmas and an even happier New Year, and also a Happy Mayan Non-Apocalypse Day too! Because it’s NOT the end of the world as we know it… and I feel fine! 😀
Chris, I was stunned to see this same tree in the square by those famous houses in San Fransisco, turns out some Doctor’s wife had been to NZ and nicked off with some of the seeds, bloody funny! So it’s entirely possible this native to NZ Is also in Hawaii! Not the least since we’re meant to be populated originally by Islanders from afar …
Now how do I go from talking about trees to trying not to snort coffee out of my nostrils from the “bring it” comments!??! You’re a dufus, but I love ya 🙂
Well then I guess that to you, I’m a loveable dufus, and hey, I’ll be happy to take that as a compliment, since I think that you’re a loveable dufusette as well! 🙂
Dufuswotnow? *grins* Gizza kiss baby
It was meant as one 😉
You are moving forward… into the destruction that is the end of the world as we know it… And I couldn’t be more proud of you… in the little time we have left.
lmao why thank you PMAO – seems we survived here downunder so maybe you lot will, also?
You mean doomsday is over? Well, you didn’t really think it would start there did you? It has to be where I live. I am the center of so many universes, after all.
So when I post my Xmas day post and it’s Xmas eve, how we gonna handle THAT reality baby??
Well I have a time machine… I don’t know how everybody else is going to cope.
Do you have room for friends??
Hmmm
Does WP have an unfriend button??
If I take anyone with me, all I could do is go back to a time before the end, but you already lived through that, so you would just live you life again… ooopsss… now here you are again, right back where you started.
Hate when that happens!!!
The circle of life…
I’ve decided we’re all gonna steam to death, it’s so bloody hot here I’m melting!!
Saying you are melting on doomsday is like shouting ‘fire’ in a burning building… or something like that…
Goodgrief, wordpress is populated with the moaning women of the single kingdom during the holidays. Get back to being snarky and bold stat!
Fuck off 😉
Will do.
Just doing as instructed (me, that is) 😉
Oi, that’s more like it! Keep that shit up, nothing more depressing than a grown woman crying.
who was crying? I was drinking – keep up will you, man! (If I had a dollar for every time I’ve said that to a man … ) 😉
Haha, well, drinking, that changes EVERYTHING! Which is probably the problem why you have to keep saying that to men. If you find them sober, they probably won’t have that problem.
ROTFLMAO! Touche 😉
And who’s grown up, more to the point??? *grins*
88 deg F, and three flags of champagne?
Yeah, I just put on a ski jacket to go out for a smoke and still froze my ass off, so no sympathy from me.
On the other hand, you sound like you’re doing great!
Happy holidays, and great to hear from you!
lmao thank you hon,and to you and yours also. First Xmas is a hard one in my xp, so I will be thinking fondly of you x
Oh, what a wonderful Christmas tree to have, and a sunny beach… Oh, I’m envious. I’d be even more jealous of the weather and sun too, but the snow and rain are a bit of a calming force for me around this time of the year.
Anyway, happy holidays!